Masks and the Masters of Shadow
The pretenders, the posers, the fakers—those who wear the mask so tightly that it becomes indistinguishable from flesh—are as bound as those who stand behind them, those who look on, noting each crack, the traces of adhesive. Perhaps the masked live within a relentless mimicry: forced to perform some facsimile of a true act, a sincerity. A pretender’s deceit, then, is not self-made; it is woven by necessity, grafted from expectations unbidden, pasted on by repetition, sealed by assumptions and applause.
Each mask, if taken seriously, reaches back toward its onlooker as if seeking confirmation or dissolution, unable to escape being seen. The observer who lacks patience with these “pretenders” only lays bare his own unsteady footing, for he too hides in his impatience, turning his discomfort into a judgment against what he thinks he discerns. The mask that covers the “pretender” would peel off and reveal nothingness without that second gaze of validation, the one which stands apart only to close in again, completing the loop in which all stand bound.
Yet how does the “pretender” themselves know they wear this mask? And how could any bystander fail to recognize their own? They can no more abandon it than the mask itself could morph into the missing face behind it. So here, the truth of appearances collapses in the iron grip of each layer, not merely waiting to be stripped but to be understood for what they are—obligations, both to the one who stands under the gaze and the one delivering it. Ironically, it is only those who acknowledge the mask’s weight, on themselves and others alike, who have the freedom to hold back, to wait, to see if anything remains when the mask is allowed to dissolve of its own accord.
To be impatient with masks is to be impatient with every player on the stage, oneself included. True patience rests in observing with a steady eye and an honest mind, seeing the necessity within the artifice without seeking to remove it.